I’ve recently been practicing asking people more questions about themselves and waiting for them to ask ME before I jump in with my own stories. I don’t how effective that would be, based on my personal experience. Years ago, I was on break at work. Just sitting at one of the Top In The Event Of An Emotional Breakdown Place Ferret Here Vintage Retro Shirt room tables, minding my own business. Out of the blue, some girl at another table says from across the room, “Why are you so quiet?” I said, “Why do you talk so much?” Her response was simply, “Wierdo.” Another question for extroverts… do you ever find it weird that someone is quiet? Whenever Im asked why Im quiet I get the feeling that the other person thinks im weird for being silent and observing. I find it hard to believe that its for any other reason.
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